It’s the holiday season and people are getting nostalgic. This is a great time to text your boo thang if you want an excuse just to talk to them. This is also a great time to cut your ties to any of your ex’s who want to get back together. Realz > feels, always.
Anyway, I ended things with D., the Navy guy who was leaving in two months. I figured it’d be pointless to stay with him even though he wanted a relationship. Or maybe he wanted sex and he said he wanted a relationship. Who knows?
Last week was Christmas and he sent me this:
I figured he was being nice and didn’t think anything of it. I wished him Merry xmas back and I wished him Happy New Year’s because I’m a decent person and that’s what decent people do. I wasn’t trying to lead him on.
A day later he texts me back “Hi :)”.
This again could be an innocuous text that I might be reading into but I decided to not text him back because he wasn’t going to meet my end goal.
I want marriage. He’s only going to be here for 2 months. Something doesn’t add up here and it’s not me.
I thought about entertaining D. Because it seems nice but honestly, I’m sick of wasting time and effort on guys I don’t see a future with. I’m sick of this process because if it’s not going to work out, I’m on to the next one. I just want to be happy and texting guys who I see 0 future with isn’t going to cut it.
I ended things with him on a good note with reasoning of why it’s over. It’s done. Finito.
I don’t plan on talking to him. Might be bitchy or seem cold but when I end things, they’re over. It’s donezo and there’s no coming back from it.
I’m ready for you 2016. Here’s to higher standards, a better me, and hopefully, a better future with a better man.
Should I have texted him back or nah? Leave a comment below!